So....i want to get my lip pierced?

what is the shortest amount of time i should wait before changing the jewelry? also, how much did you pay for just one side? snakebites? how bad did it hurt for YOU? did you get an infection? if so how do you think you got it? i have longish about to be natural blonde hair (its dyed red but im taking the dye out) and its wavy. i usually wear black eyeliner and blah blah blah. do you think it'll look okay? sorry for the multitude of questions, any answers would be helpful :]